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Let's Make it Easier to Connect

About

About

In 2023, I decided the best way I could serve communities was to help solve the connection riddle: how to make it easier to meet new people and form lasting, meaningful relationships at everyday places, at events, and in our neighborhoods.

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Social connection is at the heart of what makes us happy, but I saw that it was difficult to find for many people, including me. My motto became: it shouldn't be so hard. And I started to see solutions everywhere I went.

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So in January 2024, I created Social Connection Circle as an outline for an organization that would take research and best practices from organizations like the Foundation for Social Connection, and proven connection initiatives from around the country, test them out in Wisconsin, and serve as a resource for communities more broadly. 

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The Circle grew out of three ideas I had after I began focusing on social connection. The first was for a regular monthly gathering in every neighborhood, so that knowing and having positive relationships with your neighbors could become more normal, supported by neighborhood connectors who make it happen. The second came from attending events, where I noticed how rarely organizers made it a priority for attendees to meet people other than who they came with. New connections, as well as meaningful interaction, were left to chance, treated as secondary, as a nice-to-have. The third, and the one I got most excited about, was a basic missing space at events and public places: an open conversation zone where strangers could connect. Those first three became the main initiatives on this site.

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Working solo, and seeing the broader potential of the third initiative in particular — the Spontaneous Connection Spot, now MingleSpace — I shifted my focus to building that out: see www.minglespace.org.

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This site serves as a resource of ideas for making it easier to meet new people and talk to strangers, drawn from research and programs working in communities around the country. The Circle began in 2024 as a plan for a local community organization, a circle of people working on connection together. For now it's a personal site for my writing and consulting, but I'd welcome it growing into that team of collaborators, with guest posts, articles, and more, working on social connection in Wisconsin and communities beyond. I still believe every city should have something like a devoted Social Connection Circle—a coordinated effort of place, event, and neighborhood initiatives, and more. I'm available to consult with communities and organizations who want to build that or initiatives in this direction. The US Chamber of Connection is pursuing a similar mission nationally and gaining quite a lot of traction.

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—Michael

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Connect with me on LinkedIn or email michael@minglespace.org

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Read more at www.minglespace.org/about

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A Note from Michael

Opportunities to connect should fit into daily life. Meeting new people should feel as natural as finding a water fountain—always there when you need it, easy to use, and part of the environment.

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Places where people gather can take the lead in encouraging connection. By simply adding a clearly marked spot, they create an invitation to say hi.

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Spontaneous conversations strengthen communities. When strangers can chat in everyday places, they build trust, spark new ideas, and make places feel more welcoming.

Michael Kirsch
MingleFounder & Executive Director

In 2023, when I first started exploring how to encourage more meaningful interactions in everyday life, I kept noticing a common challenge: even in places full of people, like cafes, parks, breweries, festivals, community events, there was often no clear way to meet new people.

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​Around that time, I became aware of Surgeon General Vivek Murthy's report on loneliness and public health and the growing national conversation about the importance of social connection. That report, along with the work of groups like the Foundation for Social Connection, convinced me this was a subject area of great importance and ripe for innovation. 

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​Soon it hit me while visiting those same places and events — why aren’t there clearly marked areas, created by places themselves, where people are invited to introduce themselves? Once I saw the gap, I couldn’t unsee it.

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​Out of that realization came MingleSpace: a scalable tool to unlock the potential of missed connections. The idea is simple: give places an easy way to invite people to say hi at designated spaces, making spontaneous conversation an expected part of public places and events. ​

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If you're a community building company or organization working on something similar to this idea, or interested to help bring this idea into being, reach out to collaborate with me.

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—Michael

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Connect with me on LinkedIn

What we believe

Michael Kirsch is the founder of MingleSpace, a community-building social infrastructure project that helps everyday places create visible connection spots where people can meet and introduce themselves. Since 2024, he has piloted MingleSpaces in cafes, breweries, parks, and events across Wisconsin, building partnerships with local businesses to test the idea. Michael's work on social infrastructure focuses on how places and events can be engineered to lower the barrier to conversation and build stronger communities.

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He is also the founder and author of Social Connection Circle, where he has compiled ideas and initiatives for making community connection easier and more abundant. He explores how neighborhoods, events, everyday places, and organizations can be designed to create more opportunities for people to connect.

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He holds a BA in History from George Mason University and an MS in Mathematics in Finance from NYU’s Courant Institute. He is the author of The Challenge of Credit Supply: American Problems and Solutions, 1650–1950 (Vernon Press). Prior to founding MingleSpace, he specialized in strategic transformation and financial operations at KPMG.

Author

Thank you for visiting my website. I created the Social Connection Circle website in January 2024 as an outline for an organization that would take research and best practices coming out of organizations like the Foundation for Social Connection, and proven connection initiatives from around the country, and test them out in Wisconsin, and be a resource for communities in general.  

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Working solo, and seeing the broader potential one social infrastructure initiative in particular, the Spontaneous Connection Spot (aka the MingleSpace), I pivoted to building that out: see www.minglespace.org.

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I still believe every city should have something like a devoted Social Connection Circle—advancing a coherent set of place, event, and neighborhood initiatives so connection is abundant for all. The US Chamber of Connection is devoted to a very similar mission and and gaining steam.

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While the newsletter and collaboration elements of this website are not actively managed here. I have left the website up in case it is inspirational, and it may become a standalone blog or evolve into something else.

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Read my bio and connect with me through my other website here: www.minglespace.org/about.   

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- Michael Anthony Kirsch

Author

Thank you for visiting my website. I created the Social Connection Circle website in January 2024 as an outline for an organization that would take research and best practices coming out of organizations like the Foundation for Social Connection, and proven connection initiatives from around the country, and test them out in Wisconsin, and be a resource for communities in general.  

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Working solo, and seeing the broader potential one social infrastructure initiative in particular, the Spontaneous Connection Spot (aka the MingleSpace), I pivoted to building that out: see www.minglespace.org.

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I still believe every city should have something like a devoted Social Connection Circle—advancing a coherent set of place, event, and neighborhood initiatives so connection is abundant for all. The US Chamber of Connection is devoted to a very similar mission and and gaining steam.

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While the newsletter and collaboration elements of this website are not actively managed here. I have left the website up in case it is inspirational, and it may become a standalone blog or evolve into something else.

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Read my bio and connect with me through my other website here: www.minglespace.org/about.   

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- Michael Anthony Kirsch

Author

Thank you for visiting my website. I created Social Connection Circle in January 2024 as an outline for an organization that would take research and best practices from organizations like the Foundation for Social Connection, and proven connection initiatives from around the country, test them out in Wisconsin, and serve as a resource for communities more broadly.

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Working solo, and seeing the broader potential of one initiative in particular — the Spontaneous Connection Spot, now MingleSpace — I shifted my focus to building that out: see www.minglespace.org.

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This site now serves as a resource — ideas, frameworks, and models other communities are already using for place-based connection, connection-driven events, and neighborhood connectors. I still believe every city could benefit from a coherent, ongoing effort like this, and I'm available to consult with communities and organizations who want to build one. The US Chamber of Connection is pursuing a similar mission nationally and gaining real traction.

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I still believe every city should have something like a devoted Social Connection Circle—advancing a coherent set of place, event, and neighborhood initiatives so connection is abundant for all. The US Chamber of Connection is devoted to a very similar mission and gaining steam.

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Connect with me here: www.minglespace.org/about.   

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- Michael Kirsch

This site offers ideas, frameworks, and models for making it easier to meet new people and talk to strangers — drawn from research and programs already working in communities around the country. It covers three areas:

  • Supporting Collaborators:

  • Resources: Explore our Resources to access companies, books, and other tools 

  • Events: Soon we'll be providing events and opportunities to connect and grow the Social Connection Community 

  • Placemaking & MingleSpaces — everyday places and public spaces designed to invite connection

  • Connection-Driven Events — intentionally structuring events to lead to meaningful interactions, not just proximity

  • Neighborhood Connectors — helping neighbors get to know one another and build close-knit neighborhoods

Interested in Collaborating? Have an event, want to collaborate, or be active in your neighborhood? 

  • Supporting Individuals:​

Growing awareness of the loneliness epidemic presents an opportunity to organize our society in ways that address the cause of this crisis. 

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On an individual level, it is true that we must normalize and destigmatize discussion about feeling lonely. Just as there is no shame in feeling hungry, there should be no shame in feeling lonely and talking about it and getting the tools needed to get the social connection you need.

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But more importantly, loneliness and isolation are at root not personal problems caused by lack of individual action, they are societal ones--they are symptoms of long term societal norms and social structures. And on a societal level, just as being free from hunger is a right, we need to take action as a society that says we understand that being socially connected is a right. 

The Social Connection Circle's initiatives are designed with these social structures, and hit at the cause of what leads many of us to become lonely in the first place. 

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By our threefold approach we can change social norms to be reflective of our human needs as social creatures. We can create social infrastructure that brings forth the hidden potential of interactions between people that otherwise never take place. By making it easier to make connections at events and public spaces, and normalizing conversation with new people, we can make more of society's meeting places become inclusive for those experiencing loneliness.

Our Approach

Just as a society struck by famine cannot be productive, a society struck by loneliness cannot thrive. 

Research has shown that loneliness is a physiological warning sign comparable to hunger—a sign that the body is lacking the necessary social connection for the human mind and body to function properly.  

Growing awareness of the loneliness epidemic presents an opportunity to organize our society in ways that address the cause of this crisis. 

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On an individual level, it is true that we must normalize and destigmatize discussion about feeling lonely. Just as there is no shame in feeling hungry, there should be no shame in feeling lonely and talking about it and getting the tools needed to get the social connection you need.

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But loneliness and isolation are at root not personal problems caused by lack of individual action, they are societal ones—symptoms of long term societal norms and social structures. And at a societal level, just as being free from hunger is a right, we need to take action that says we understand that being socially connected is a right. The Social Connection Circle's initiatives are designed with these social structures in mind, addressing the cause of what leads many of us to become lonely in the first place. 

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With our initiatives, we can mold social norms to be reflective of our human needs as social creatures —we can create social infrastructure that brings forth the hidden potential of interactions between people that otherwise never take place. And by making it easier to make connections at events and public spaces and normalizing new conversations, we can make more of society's meeting places become inclusive for those experiencing loneliness.

Our Approach

The U.S. Surgeon General has classified social isolation and loneliness a public health crisis, with over half of all Americans experiencing measurable levels of loneliness.

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Physical & Mental Health

  • Four decades of research has shown those who are socially isolated have an increased risk for early death from all causes. 

  • We now know that loneliness has health impacts equal to smoking 15 cigarettes per day or having alcohol use disorder.

  • Deficiencies in social relationships can increase the risk of stroke and heart disease by ~30%.

  • Social connection is so important that we are 50% less likely to die prematurely if we have strong social connections.

  • Loneliness:

    • is linked to depression, poor sleep quality, accelerated cognitive decline and impaired immunity

    • increases in suicidal ideation/attempts and self-harm.

    • is twice as harmful to physical and mental health as obesity. 

 

Public Safety & Trust

  • Social isolation has been found to be the most important external indicator leading to attacks by mass shooters. 

  • Isolation and loneliness has led to reduced trust in government and among neighbors, rise in hate groups, and lack of belonging. 

    • In the 1970s, 50% of Americans felt that “most people can be trusted.” In 2012, this figure has reduced to 33%.

    • Social disconnection has led to doubling of hate groups in the last 20 years. 

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Learn more in the US Surgeon Generals report on social connection>

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Our Loneliness Epidemic

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